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Olivia’s NF1 story

15 November 2023

My name is Olivia, I'm 13 years old, live in Sunderland and I have Neurofibromatosis Type 1.

I was diagnosed with NF1 when I was a 6 month old baby. My mam and dad got me genetically tested because my Mam, who is called Kelly, has NF1 and scoliosis kyphosis. My Dad is called Neil.

We have a pet cat called Oreo who is a little villain, he's still only very young, so still learning.

My mam told me I'm her little miracle, as she was told that she may never have children after going through IVF.

Then along came me, they kept a close eye on my mam whilst she was pregnant with scans and things but I did come 6 weeks early, so I spent 3 weeks in hospital until I was strong enough to leave. 

I have a best friend called Jessica, she's been my friend since nursery - we have gone through school together and are still friends in senior school. We do loads of things together and she always looks out for me. 

Primary school wasn't easy for me and I didn't like it so much, as I was bullied for most of it, which has left me feeling very anxious and nervous. I've learned to deal with it much better than I did in primary school, by talking about how and what they did made me feel. 

I now go to a senior school in Sunderland and I'm in Year 8 now. Since starting seniors, I've already achieved so much.

In Year 7, I won a castle competition where I wrote about my nearby local castle called Hylton Castle, I wrote about how it originally was and my mam helped me build it. It was entered into the family entry and won.

Then I took part in a short story competition in school and my short story was published in a book called Twisted Stories.

I take part in a performance academy on a Saturday called Stage School, at my current school and I really enjoy performing.

At the end of Year 7, at my after school club, I did a performance in Grease, where I performed in front of parents and children from my old school and other schools. I really enjoyed it. I played the part of a geek.

Now I'm in Year 8 and still loving senior school - I have already won an award, which was Most Improved Student in Information Technology for Year 7.

I'm learning to play the electric guitar in school, and I'm on the school's SEN Student Council, so I speak up for what is needed in school, or for what could be changed. 

I am also a school career's ambassador, I attend meetings and listen to what they have to say in different types of job roles so I can promote them. 

My hobbies include watching YouTube, going to the theatre and watching musicals, and practising my make-up skills.

I haven't really decided what I want to do when I'm older yet, as there is so much out there to do.

I'm Kelly, I'm 45 years old and I am Olivia's mam. I have Neurofibromatosis Type 1. 

I was first diagnosed as a baby at around 18 months old. I have many plexiform tumours, it is mainly my face that is greatly affected and I've had many operations. I also have scoliosis kyphosis, and have 2 metal rods supporting my spine. My NF1 comes from my dad, Olivia's grandad, Alan.

I first heard about Nerve Tumours UK through my NF support worker Gayle Seymour, who has now retired. Now, it is Rebecca from Centre of Life in Newcastle, who is on hand to help if ever we need it, or to go in my daughter's school if needed.

Through NF1, I have friends from all over the world on Facebook and we share our stories and problems together. It helps knowing that there are people out there going through similar situations and we are able to support each other. Neurofibromatosis is a part of me and my daughter, I wouldn't change any of it as it has made me the strong, independent person that I am.

Living with NF1, Neurofibromatosis is not easy. Dealing with the pain in my back: I have had rods to support my spine and numerous of surgeries on it. Dealing with people staring as I'm visually different, doesn't bother me. I just tell them, especially children if they ask and inform them of my condition, which parents normally apologise for. I say ‘Don't apologise’. It’s nice they ask, as it means they are interested in learning, better than staring at me the whole time.

I've achieved a lot in my life academically, I did miss a lot of school, due to having a lot of surgeries but I still got all my GCSEs and even went to further my education.

My biggest achievement is having my daughter Olivia. Myself and my partner Neil were on IVF for 6 years, as we were wanting an egg donor to have a baby without NF. As we got close to plantation of the egg, I was told twice that the endometrium lining of my womb was too thin and unable to plant an egg and my ability to have a successful pregnancy was very small, or I would lose the baby. Needless to say, we were devastated.

Fast forward about 6 months later, I found out that I was pregnant so I rang up my NF support worker Gayle, and was placed under RVI Newcastle as I was a complex pregnancy. I was scanned every few weeks to monitor pregnancy. My pregnancy was amazing, although the baby needed to arrive early because of my spine, there was not a lot of room left with me being small - all 4ft 8 of me.

At 34 weeks, Olivia was born by C-section and due to my scoliosis kyphosis, I had to be asleep. Olivia spent two and half weeks in SCBU (special care baby unit). Olivia has achieved so much in her 13 years and has so much to look forward to. Academically, she is doing very well in school: from winning a castle competition; a story published; also a poem in SCHOOL. Olivia and her best friend came 2nd in a ‘Ready Steady Cook’ competition in school which she loved!

Olivia is finally loving senior school, after having so much anxiety at primary school, she has overcome her fears and the bullying, to not let others get to her. Socially, she's very active with her stage school. They have been doing shows and festivals which she never had the confidence to do, but now is showing people who she really is. Olivia still faces many struggles with bullying, as they try to call me her mam which does upset her but I've said to tell them that your mam has heard it all before and it's nothing new. Olivia, myself and her dad try to live our lives to the fullest and take every obstacle head on.

Masterclasses in NF: Constitutional Mismatch Repair Deficiency Syndrome as Differential Diagnosis to NF1/Legius Syndrome - Prof. Dr. Katharina Wimmer

Constitutional Mismatch Repair Deficiency Syndrome as Differential Diagnosis to NF1/Legius Syndrome

Prof. Dr. Katharina Wimmer, Medical University of Innsbruck

Masterclasses in NF: Rare NF1-Associated Tumors in Adults - Eric Legius & Prof. Ellen Denayer

Masterclasses in NF: Rare NF1-Associated Tumors in Adults

Eric Legius, MD, PhD, University Hospital Leuven

Prof. Ellen Denayer, University Hospital Leuven

Masterclasses in NF: Optimising Hearing Outcomes in NF2-Related Schwannomatosis - Simon Freeman

Masterclasses in NF: Optimising Hearing Outcomes in NF2-Related Schwannomatosis

Simon Freeman, MPhil FRCS, Manchester Royal Infirmary and Salford Royal Hospital

Masterclasses in NF: NF1 Dermatological Manifestations - Pierre Wolkenstein, Laura Fertitta & Sirkku Peltonen

Masterclasses in NF: NF1 Dermatological Manifestations

Pierre Wolkenstein, MD, PhD, Hopital Henri-Mondor, Paris, France

Laura Fertitta, MD, Hôpital Universitaire Henri Mondor

Sirkku Peltonen, MD, PhD, University of Gothenberg, Sweden

Masterclasses in NF: Breast Cancer in NF1 - Gareth Evans

Masterclasses in NF: Breast Cancer in NF1

Gareth Evans, MD, University of Manchester, UK

Masterclasses in NF: Pain in Non-NF2-Related Schwannomatosis - David Pang

Masterclasses in NF: Pain in Non-NF2-Related Schwannomatosis

David Pang, MD, ChB. Guys and St Thomas' Hospital NHS Trust, London

Masterclasses in NF: Distinguishing Non-NF2-Related from NF2-Related Schwannomatosis - Clinical and Genetic Approaches - Said Farschtschi

Masterclasses in NF: Distinguishing Non-NF2-Related from NF2-Related Schwannomatosis - Clinical and Genetic Approaches

Said Farschtschi, MD, University Medical Center, Hamburg-Eppendorf, Germany

Masterclasses in NF: NF1 Pre-Implantation Genetic Diagnosis - Eric Legius & Prof. Ellen Denayer

Masterclasses in NF: NF1 Pre-Implantation Genetic Diagnosis

Eric Legius, MD, PHD, University Hospital of Leuven, Belgium

Prof. Ellen Denayer, University Hospital of Leuven, Belgium

NF2 Working Together: from a tentative diagnosis and beyond

Understanding the impact that a tentative diagnosis has on a parent. Information and access to the existing NTUK and Specialist Nerve Tumours medical and non medical care network.

NF1 Working Together Part 2: from a tentative diagnosis and beyond

Understanding the impact that a tentative diagnosis has on a parent. Information and access to the existing NTUK and Specialist Nerve Tumours medical and non medical care network.

NF1 Working Together Part 1: from a tentative diagnosis and beyond

Understanding  the impact that a tentative diagnosis has on a parent. Information and access to the existing NTUK and Specialist Nerve Tumours medical and non medical care network.

Masterclasses in NF: Surgery in NF2 - Michel Kalamarides & Andrew King

Masterclasses in NF: Surgery in NF2

Michel Kalamarides, MD, PhD, Hôpital Pitié-Salpêtrière, Paris, France

Prof Andrew King, MBBS FRCS FRCS(SN), Salford Royal Hospital, Manchester, United Kingdom. Member of the MAB of Nerve Tumours UK

Masterclasses in NF: Cognition and Behaviour in NF1: Phenotype and Treatment Approaches - Shruti Garg, Andre Rietman

Masterclasses in NF: Cognition and Behaviour in NF1: Phenotype and Treatment Approaches

Dr Shruti Garg, MBBS, MRCPsych, MMedSci, PhD, Royal Manchester Children’s Hospital, United Kingdom. Member of the MAB of Nerve Tumours UK

Andre Rietman, PhD, Erasmus University Medical Center, Rotterdam, Netherlands

Masterclasses in NF: Emotional Challenges in NF1, NF2 and Schwannomatosis - Susie Henley, Thomas Pletschko & Verena Rosenmayr

Masterclasses in NF: Emotional Challenges in NF1, NF2 and Schwannomatosis

Susie Henley, DClinPsy, PhD, Guy’s and St Thomas’ NHS Foundation Trust, London UK

Thomas Pletschko, PhD, Medical University of Vienna, Austria

Verena Rosenmayr, Clinical Psychologist, Medical University of Vienna, Austria

Masterclasses in NF: NF1 Pediatric Management - Rianne Oostenbrink

Masterclasses in NF: NF1 Pediatric Management

Rianne Oostenbrink, MD, PhD, Erasmus University Medical Center, Rotterdam, Netherlands

Masterclasses in NF: Associated Glioma in Children - the Optic Pathway and Beyond - Amedeo Azizi

Masterclasses in NF: Associated Glioma in Children - the Optic Pathway and Beyond

Amedeo Azizi, MD, PhD, Head of the Paediatric Neurofibromatosis Program and Paediatric Neuro-Oncology Program, Medical University of Vienna, Austria

Masterclasses in NF: NF1 Orthopedic Manifestations - Eric Legius and Christophe Glorion

Masterclasses in NF: NF1 Orthopedic Manifestations

Eric Legius, MD, PhD. Head of Clinical Genetics Department of the University Hospital Leuven, Belgium

Christophe Glorion, MD, PhD, Department of Paediatric Orthopedic and Traumatologic Surgery, Hopital Necker-Enfants Malades, Paris, France. 

Masterclasses in NF: NF1 Malignant Peripheral Nerve Sheath Tumours - Rosalie Ferner and Viktor-Felix Mautner

Masterclasses in NF: NF1 Malignant Peripheral Nerve Sheath Tumours

Prof Rosalie Ferner, Consultant Neurologist and Lead Clinician for Neurofibromatosis, Guy's and St. Thomas' NHS Foundation Trust, London. Member of the MAB of Nerve Tumours UK and Trustee of Nerve Tumours UK

Viktor-Felix Mautner, MD, PhD. University Medical Centre in Hamburg-Eppendorf, Germany. Head of NF Outpatient Department

Masterclasses in NF - Neurofibromatosis Type 1: Cutaneous Neurofibromas - Pierre Wolkenstein and Sirkku Peltonen

Masterclasses in NF - Neurofibromatosis Type 1: Cutaneous Neurofibromas

Pierre Wolkenstein, MD, PhD. Hopital Henri-Mondor, Paris, France. Head of the Department of Dermatology

Sirkku Peltonen MD, PhD. University of Gothenberg, Sweden. Professor of Dermatology

INFER (International NF Educational Resources) is a series of online educational lectures for medical professionals by leading neurofibromatosis experts. The Masterclasses take place online approximately once a month, each on a different topic, and include real-time interaction between the expert presenter and the participants. The presentations are conducted in English, with real-time audio interpretation available in 6 additional languages: French, German, Italian, Portuguese, Russian, and Spanish. A recording of each INFER masterclass is then be made available online in each language for those who could not attend an event. INFER is an initiative of Children’s Tumor Foundation Europe, supported by an educational grant from AstraZeneca. https://ctfeurope.org/research/masterclasses-in-nf

BPNA Keynote Lecture - Prof Rosalie Ferner - Neurofibromatosis 1 in the 21st Century

‘Neurofibromatosis 1 in the 21st Century’

Keynote Lecture at the 48th British Paediatric Neurology Association Annual Scientific Meeting on 21st January 2022

Prof Rosalie Ferner, Consultant Neurologist and Lead Clinician for Neurofibromatosis, Guy's and St. Thomas' NHS Foundation Trust, London. Member of the MAB of Nerve Tumours UK and Trustee of Nerve Tumours UK